in Johannesburg (Sandton & Waverley) — Online Available
Relationships can thrive with the right support. As an HPCSA-registered Clinical Psychologist, Boitumelo Mamiane provides compassionate, structured counselling for couples and partners. Sessions are available in Sandton (Rivonia), Waverley/Savoy Estate, and online for your convenience.
As one of the few Black/African male psychologists in Johannesburg, Boitumelo offers a culturally grounded, multilingual approach (Afrikaans, English, Sesotho sa Leboa, Xitsonga, Setswana, isiXhosa, isiZulu) that helps both partners feel seen and understood.
Who This Helps
Communication breakdown, frequent conflict, criticism/defensiveness
Trust issues, betrayal or infidelity recovery
Disconnection, intimacy & affection concerns
Premarital counselling and preparing for marriage
Parenting strain, blended family dynamics, life-transition stress
Cross-cultural or language differences impacting the relationship
How Therapy Works (Approach)
Integrative, evidence-based care
Boitumelo’s work is grounded in psychodynamic understanding of patterns, while integrating emotion-focused, Gottman-informed, and cognitive-behavioural strategies. You’ll learn practical tools to communicate, manage conflict, and rebuild closeness.
What to expect
Joint intake (50–80 mins): goals, history, strengths & pain points
Individual check-ins (as needed): space for each partner’s voice
Skills sessions: communication, repair attempts, fair fighting, empathy
Consolidation: action plan & relapse-prevention for future conflicts